Thursday, August 17, 2006

Monogamy has Problems

This is typically why monogamy doesn't work on a lot of levels. Deserves repeating for all you liberated women who are SINGLE. And will probably stay so.

women said:I would expect that from you. 36 is too old for starting a family? Since you are "Fundy" of course .........

Fundy says: The problem here is if you haven't found somebody to start a family with by 36, odds are your not going to find anybody period.

On the outside all the good men are already taken. And there is room for no more.You being in the gentile world you are SOL. Unless one of the better men happens to get free....

You hoping to find someone but your odds are against you. You may never find someone. In the gentile world if you get beyond a certain age when most young people are getting married, 18 to about 25 or so. Your chances of finding someone decrease every year you stay single. Its been my observation that women who get to your age without being married usually, but not always, have some type of problem that keeps them from marriage.

However I don't claim to know your situation personally.
Good luck

29 comments:

Anonymous said...

Fundy, I think it is rather obvious why you aren't married yet.

Anonymous said...

Fundy,

How would you know? You have never experienced dating in the gentile world, or have you? And just to prove you wrong, I have an older sister that at 37 found a wonderful man, is married and at 42 years old has her second child on the way. They own a beautiful home, own a company of their own and don't have to work 7 months of the year. So in those seven months they get to spend wonderful family time together.

I would much rather be alone than be in a "Fundy circle". I would rather die with ten cats (and I'm not at all fond of cats) than to settle for someone that needs more than one wife to have sex with and be happy with. And I would truly rather die before enterint a "Fundy Circle" where my husband may possibly be my mother's husband she was recently transferred to, my uncle, my grandfather, my cousin or anyone that may possibly share the same genes as me. This will produce children as scary looking as Warren Jeffs and some of the people I've seen pictures of in the "Fundy circle". And God forbid I wear my hair with the big shoop on top. I would pray lighting would strike me and burn it off.

Also, I would rather die lonely and single than be with someone that thinks on the level that you do. Everything you say is so shallow and tunnel visioned it almost scares me. Doesn't really scare me too much because thank goodness I have a good head on my shoulders and stay away from men like you that repress (repress: to prevent the natural or normal expression, activity, or development of) women.

Plus, statistics show that the divorce rate is over 50% (and yes, i know this is probably not the case in "Fundy Circles" because they can't divorce when not legally married). So why would I possible SETTLE for someone when I know patience is a virtue and God will send me someone when he is ready.

I will never settle. I'm a beautiful, articulate and very smart woman that is very confident in my choices. I am confident I will find a wonderful man that will love and care for me as I will him. He will treat me wonderfully and as an equal and will help me to reach my goals at home and in the corporate world and I will help him in those same ways.

I feel bad for your wife (Or wives). I guarantee without even knowing them they are either very sad or brainwashed women. You sound miserable and they must have settled to be with someone with a chain of thoughts and an attitude like yours. So very unattractive.

ATAR_i said...

Don't post here - fundy will erase this thread if you make a point. If you want to answer him, start a new topic, or post a reply on another topic.

fundy said...

Women says:
I will never settle. I'm a beautiful, articulate and very smart woman that is very confident in my choices. I am confident I will find a wonderful man that will love and care for me as I will him. He will treat me wonderfully and as an equal and will help me to reach my goals at home and in the corporate world and I will help him in those same ways.
Fundy Says:
Well that's one of your problems. Corporate world and family world, you can't really have them both. You can't really be a full time mom to your children. You can't be everything to all things. You will be one or the other. Or less to one and more to the other.
Career women are to be avoided at all costs........ They put so much time into work they make POOR wifes. Time with husband comes at the end of a very long list. Been there done that......

TBM said...

Fundy: Career women are to be avoided at all costs........ They put so much time into work they make POOR wifes
My mom was a career woman. I think she was just fine as a wife. She was certainly a great mother.

A skill that all career people learn is balancing priorities. They have to do it all the time at work. And it's not so difficult extending that skill to the home as well.

And it brings so many positive benefits. for a start, the extra income means the family is able to better provide for their children -- diets can be better, health insurance is more comprehensive, college funds can be larger. When the children leave home, but still require some financial assistance from their parents, the parents are able to render that -- I know I would not be in the happy position I am were it not for my parents' good dual income.

And mothers tend to teach their skills to their children. So the children grow up better prepared for adult life. Including balancing their priorities, a very useful skill in the modern world.

Anonymous said...

I'm not even responding anymore. Obviously we live in different worlds. I live in present day times and you live ...well I'm not really sure. I'm surprised, fundy, that you don't move to a place where they stil do female genital mutilation. Seems like it would fit in with all your other off-the-wall thoughts.

fundy said...

well yes the gentile world has been set up so that the wife has to work. There is no way to make ends meet without it. Its the sad case of the way this country operates......You have to send her out to work where some office romeo can chase her around the desk. Yes the stories I know about that... Should we talk..... do you have an enquiring mind?

Anonymous said...

Well, Fundy when the all the polgymist wives have new car, a home and a bank account of their own, I might consider it a wonderful life.

Anonymous said...

fundy,

Since you destroyed most of what I posted on this blog, I have posted a reply to this thread in Desert Darling's thread.

IITMOC

TBM said...

You have to send her out to work where some office romeo can chase her around the desk
WHAT?? With your attitude to women, I find it hard to believe you ever even kissed a girl before! Has it ever even occurred to you that women have minds of their own?

Oh no, I guess not. I forgot you're a fundamentalist.

Believe me, if any man had tried chasing MY mother around the office, she'd have exactly what to do to put him off sex for life in two seconds!

TBM said...

Fundy, your attitude gives me a very good reason NEVER to join the FLDS! I like women with brains, and wills and ambitions of their own. One of the things that I have always found most attractive about my wife is that she's smart. I cannot abide airheads!

I must admit I'm also deeply appreciative of the enormity of her breasts.

In addition to her large brain (and breasts), she's also independent. She can sort things out for herself, instead of relying on me the whole time. When I get home from work, I don't want to deal with problems. And thanks to my wife, I don't have to -- they're already dealt with.

Based on your depiction of fundy women, I'd sooner stay single my whole life. I could never tolerate having your ideal women hanging around my house 24/7! They'd drive me nuts!

onthestreet said...

TBM said... Fundy, your attitude gives me a very good reason NEVER to join the FLDS!


STREET's Reply: WHOOOO! Thank God for that. Besides, you don't just join. You're NOT accepted. You have to do right, and then be invited. The more reasons they can give you to keep you out, the better. You lose.

Anonymous said...

Real Christian of ya Streety.

onthestreet said...

Anonymous said... Real Christian of ya Streety. 8/21/2006 4:29 PM

STREET REPLY: Correct. Christ, the Head of of a true Christianity, proclaimed it best (Mt. 25):

1 Then shall the kingdom of heaven be likened unto ten virgins, which took their lamps, and went forth to meet the bridegroom. (The FLDS faithful were called forth):

2 And five of them were wise, and five were foolish. (Fives fingers on the left hand of God, five on the right)

3 They that were foolish took their lamps, and took no oil with them. (Fatness: The feast & yoke of Christ).

4 But the wise took oil in their vessels with their lamps. (in their bodies, with their spirits).

5 While the bridegroom tarried, they all slumbered and slept.

6 And at midnight there was a cry made, Behold, the bridegroom cometh; go ye out to meet him. (Yearn)

7 Then all those virgins arose, and trimmed their lamps.

8 And the foolish said unto the wise, Give us of your oil; for our lamps are gone out.

9 But the wise answered, saying, Not so; lest there be not enough for us and you: but go ye rather to them that sell, and buy for yourselves.

IS CHRIST UNCHRISTIAN?



Matthew 7:
21. Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven.

22. Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?

23. And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.

24. Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock:

25. And the rain descended, and the floods came, and the winds blew, and beat upon that house; and it fell not: for it was founded upon a rock.


IS CHRIST UNCHRISTAIN?

muggsey said...

Jesus last name is not Christ. Followers of 'the way' were first called Christians at Antioch. The term was derogatory.

Jesus, Messiah is also called The Christ, the promised one. The term Christ is a title, not a name.

ATAR_i said...

Love the paraphrasing street. Just go through the Bible personalizing everything to you.

drumroll

NPD alert (Narcissistic Personality Disorder).

OTS you have an intellect rivaled only by garden tools, and an ego as big as the empire state building, made by mattel.

muggsey said...

Atar_i

Would you consider taking another blog name? I'd welcome you as my ghost writer. Your wit far outshines my pitiful efforts

ATAR_i said...

Thanks for the compliment mugs : )

muggsey said...

You are most welcome. You earn it in every post.

muggsey said...

Monogamy has problems. WOW, what insight! A new revelation that no one has known about ever!

No matter, I'd rather have to keep one wife comforted and somewhat happy than to try to attempt the same with three or twenty who were allways at each others throat.

You polygamists know about control, nothing about love.

onthestreet said...

TAR Said: OTS you have an intellect rivaled only by garden tools, and an ego as big as the empire state building, made by mattel. 8/22/2006 5:48 PM


STWEET’s Wepwy: Well how appwopwiate. Adam cultivated, sowed, hoed, plowed, dressed, what’s the woid: tended…It’ll come to me. Hold your plow-horses…SILENCE! It’s grinding…Adam was chosen to come down and “TILL THE GROUND”. There it is. See, He is our Father and our God, and if such a being has tools to use for His glorious work, then I am happy to be such an instrument.

I am grateful for the compliment, Tar. However, it will require much more than a Tar-bucked to bring in any harvest. As for crediting me with a very large ego, the term is akin to He-go. With such energy of intellect, one may reach unto the stars, and the ego of God is described as “Super-Ego”. I think that would be even bigger than a pile of bricks in the Empire State. Once again, your compliments flood my soul. What a darling!

Yes, I do personize the Bible. I have made it very personal, and it is one of my great novels. Thanks, my little magpie.

onthestreet said...

MUKKY Said (8/25/2006 5:28 PM): “You polygamists know about control, nothing about love”.

STREET’s Reply:
Yes, Self-Control is very crucial to God’s love. Thanks for the compliment, Muk (Galatians 5): 22. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, 23. Meekness, temperance (SELF-CONTROL): against such there is no law.

(Prov. 6:16): All of these also relate to God’s love, AND self-control:
16. These six things doth the LORD hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto him:
17. A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood,
18. An heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, feet that be swift in running to mischief,
19. A false witness that speaketh lies, and he that soweth discord among brethren.


I’ve known the Prophet Warren all my life, and he’s always been MEEK (not proud), TRUTHFUL (never lying), INNOCENT (never harming another person), STILL (never imagining wickedness), HIDING from mischief (never running to it), A WITNESS OF GOD (never a false witness), and ALWAYS SOWING PEACE (never discord among brethren). In 50-years, I never saw him display anything that God Hates.

Even his enemies, as they quiver and tremble in their anger and hatred, confess to all these facts. How so? They accuse him of being dull (NEVER having something to be haughty about, or proud of). They accuse him of picking up on every fault and error, to the oppression of the people (always TOO TRUTHFUL). They accuse him of having too many babies, giving too much life (NEVER TAKING LIFE, but giving life).

They accuse him of keeping silent when confronted about the wickedness of other men (NEVER IMAGINING WICKEDNESS). Yes, he may have to separate them from the wheat, but that just adds greatly to his wisdom and his prudence. They accuse him of hiding from mischief (NEVER RUNNING TO IT).

They accuse him of witnessing the smallest things, as a nitpicker, again to peoples’ great chagrin (NEVER A FALSE WITNESS, but accepting not sin “with the least degree of allowance”, which very thing is also said of God). They accuse him of never allowing opposing parties to confront one another (thus confessing again, inadvertently, that he NEVER SOWS DISCORD among brethren). Yes, there is much discord among brethren, as "accusers of the Brethren", but they sowed it themselves. The Prophet remains silent.

There you go, MUKKS: The FLDS faithful certainly do know alot about control (SELF-CONTROL), and this pertains to “the True Self”, which is God’s Love. Like I often say, Les: You often start something right, if that is all you do. Good job.

muggsey said...

atar_i

I suspect that ots's lisp is due to his sexual orientation. Bet he has a limp wrist too.

ATAR_i said...

OTS - when you write that stuff - does it make sense to you?

Do you ever go back and read it, or proof it?

Your just fercockt.

Anonymous said...

I’ve known the Prophet Warren all my life..." ...In 50-years, I never saw him display anything that God Hates.

There is NO WAY, you could possibly have "known" Warren all the years of his life. That is an out-and-out LIE - that is unless you are his mother! And even then, there is no way even SHE could really "know" him since he became married and is now in hiding.

What absolute rubbish!

muggsey said...

Anon. 8/27 8:50

When a lie is told another has to be told to prop up the first one. I have read so many lies on this blog attemting to justify the works and teachings of WJ I have come to think of a shack perched on the edge of a bluff. The pilings are splintering and the whole thing is about to turn end over end in it's fall toward truth. If you are going to build a building spend more on the foundation than upon the finish work.

I don't know if it's still there, but there was such a building lying on it's roof at the bottom of a steep grade. It was on the road leading from Nathrop, Colorado up to Tin-Cup pass, west of Mt. Princeton. The building that had rolled down looked to be in pretty good condition even after it's journey down the slope. It's foundation just couldn't bear the weight nor compromise gravity. So are lies. Like the house built upon the sand. The winds blew and the floods came and beat against that house, and great was the fall of it.

onthestreet said...

MUK (8/28/2006 4:21 PM):

That's right. Once upon a time, there were Three Little Pigs (or pligs, as all the world are pligs):

Celestial: House of Brick
Terrestrial: House of Wood
Telestial: House of Straw

Every soul attains to the glory that they abide, on which that law is predicated.

ATAR_i said...

Extra-Terrestrial: House of Lt. Sulu

muggsey said...

Fantasy - Liliput